Look at my fat arms! – okay, now that you have told us to we will … before you said that, no one noticed anything unusual about you, they just saw what they always see … the person they know and love. So why do people tell us to look at the things about themselves that they don’t like? I believe that they want the person or people they are viewing the photos with to disagree, ‘No, they aren’t fat’ or ‘ that is a great photo of you’ … most times the person who made the statement will strenuously disagree and continue to assassinate themselves with self demeaning comments. We always see the things we don’t like about ourselves when we see our own image but our family members and loved ones just see the beautiful person they see every day so give yourself a break because you know what … you’re not as bad as you think you are!